Last
Devote readers of my garden will know I ski bum instead of a proper job. In my training, I learned about LAST de escalation/conflict resolution, and thought it was actually notable enough to write down, unlike the rest of my training.
L: Listen
Actively listen to guest concerns by giving them your full attention so that you understand the issue & their feelings.
- If you look distracted, the guest may feel ignored or become more upset
- If you are actually distracted, you won’t understand what their complaint or issue is really about
- Don’t interrupt or debate; listen to understand & empathize, not to plan your reply or a rebuttal
- Paraphrase their comments to show you’ve heard what they’re saying
A: Apologize
Offer a genuine apology without excuses to show you understand their concern.
- Saying sorry shows the guest that we take ownership of the issue
- It’s an opportunity to tell the guest “We can do better”
- Simple apologies can validate their feelings (but don’t condone bad behavior)
- Explain the rule/policy, but don’t defend it; you’re unlikely to change their mind
S: Solve
Engage the guest in solving the problem in a way that satisfies them and is appropriate for the company.
- Take (or commit to taking) action
- Be collaborative & offer options
- Resist the urge to say no; turn no into yes & be creative with solutions (that are proportionate to the issue)
- Leave the guest happy and wanting to return
T: Thank
Sincerely thank the guest for letting us know about their concern and reiterate your commitment to the resolution.
- Thanking someone for complaining may seem strange, but it’s an essential step
- A guest telling us about an issue is an opportunity to improve and prevent the issue for future guests
- They could say nothing & simply take their business elsewhere
- Thanking a guest for complying with a rule or policy can calmly end the situation